Why is it so hard to find love today?

PURPOSE OF THIS POST:

We live in a patriotic society that has made many efforts to set limitations on how we embrace our divine and sacred energies. You ever heard that saying, “This is a man’s world?” Sacred Masculinity is centered around our physical environment. Divine Feminine energy connects us to spirit. If we live in a masculine world, that must mean we craft our perceptions through our physical environments and not our spirit? This brings us to the trouble with love today.

One of the first distinctions of this life is man and woman. Each playing a role in most aspects of life. When we think about the relationship man has with life, there is a divine balance between physical and spiritual. I believe today’s battle is about finding a way to help each other hold on to the vision, and better understand how we can help each other grow.

THE LOST SOUL

To bridge the gap, we must first understand the characteristics of Devine feminine and sacred masculine energies and how they work together. There is a belief that our society is being lost due to women being programmed to take on more masculine roles. If this was true, how would it misalign the purpose and power of the sacred man?

INTUITION & FOCUS

Women bring souls into this world making them the bridge between physical and spiritual. Mothers are considered to have a keen instinct when it comes to their kids. They probably know better than anyone about listening to that hunch feeling. This is because naturally women are more INTUITIVE than men. Intuition guides us from within and gives us outward understanding. YOU ALREADY KNOW when someone’s energy is off! You are weary of danger and static behavior.

Someone who has a strong intuition may struggle to capture the whole picture. This is why men who are FOCUSED tend to attract these type of females. A masculine man must be able to produce a clear visual definition of his interest. These guys have set intentions and your intuition can help stay on the right track and away from danger. All men must have a goal that is used as motivation. Men always equate suffering in the process of going after their long term goals. “Something hard to attain does not come easy.” A focused man knows how to snap back into reality and get better, but imagine if he has a woman that helps him hold his vision by protecting him from evil. No man can fail if one person believes in him!

EMOTIONS & LOGIC

Women have a Devine power to connect a man’s mind to his heart through shared EMOTIONS. That is because emotions derive from our own circumstances, moods, and relationships with people. Emotions are how we attract and connect with one another. Women have wires in their brains connecting everything and it’s driven by energy called emotion. Women like to talk about how you feel, but get bored by facts. “Where you from?”, “How old are you?” GUYS.. STOP IT!! Make more statements, tell more stories! You have to switch it up. You can’t attract love without understanding your emotions.

A man stays trapped in his own mind until he finds a woman that helps him break his own LOGIC. Men tend to be direct and problem solving oriented. When we discuss a subject we open only what is in that box inside our brain. Men who are logical feel the need to validate everything. Although logic plays a big role in the physical realm, too much of it can keep a man trapped in his own world. His own mind. He has to learn to balance logic with emotion, but many men fail to acknowledge the emotions they have. This makes the process of enlightenment much harder to attain.

THE LAW OF KARMA: “What A Man Soweth He Reaps.”

This means we must Direct Our Desire In The “Divine Right” Direction. Any personal will being forced is destined to fail.

SURRENDER & ASSERTIVENESS

Many people fail or lack the ability to submit or SURRENDER to authority. To surrender is to embody a divine feminine quality. Through surrender, we abolish unnecessary suffering. Surrender allows us to wish without worry. If we look at fear as inverted faith (belief in the bad), surrendering to it opens up space for good to come in. Because we surrender, we are able to leave behind that before and reach for that ahead. We must be like water which is considered to be the strongest element due to its lack of resistance. Besides resistance has a way of following us all.

A submissive woman will naturally gravitate to ASSERTIVE men. These are the guys who are confident and bold in their personalities. They like to take charge. They typically stand up for their beliefs without disregarding the rights of others. They are honest and direct with people when expressing their feelings, but stay open to opinions. Women love relationships with confident men. They do not bend to things around them, because there are no guessing games with assertive men. They have boundaries set and take responsibility for their actions. No woman likes to be left guessing where they stand in a man’s life. Confident men air their thoughts providing security and comfort. This shows signs of maturity because it takes great work to achieve.

MY SPIRIT LEAD LIFE

Energy has no limitations because it is beyond boundaries and understanding. Sometimes we refer to “Father” God as only masculine, and treat feminine energy as just behaviors or looks, voiding the natural order of things. When we let our mind lead our body, the body abandons the spirit. The SPIRIT leads the MIND and the MIND leads the BODY. So I ask you… How will you embrace how you receive your environments (physically or spiritually)?

HOMEWORK

What type of issues arise from my imbalance?

*WITHOUT BALANCE THERE CAN ONLY BE DESTRUCTION*

Published by Rico

Rico Culberson is the creator of the uprising blogging site, The "R" Word. This is a platform that he uses to enrich the perspectives of readers who have experienced or is experiencing life challenges. He is adamant about seeing the positivism in all things good or bad. He gives pointers and weekly reminders of ways to reach a higher much more intentional way thinking and believing.

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