In my free time I occasionally treat myself to a movie or tv series of some sort. As of recently , I
found myself watching “Love is Blind” on Netflix . This series tests the question, is love truly
blind ? Are social , economical , demographically , religious , and social structures no barriers for
true love ? In this social experiment single bachelors and bachelorhood agree to date blindly in
isolated speed dates in hopes of finding their one. The ten episode series had me in a frenzy of
emotions watching these people take a leap of faith. Ultimately, as i got more engaged in the
film i realized something that was inadequate with the relationships. The ones who walked out
the experiment successfully were the couples who shared the same love languages or knew
how to accommodate their partners needs.
There’s essentially five love languages . Stick around and figure out which one fits you or
whomever it may be. Don’t hesitate to do your own research.
1.Words of Affirmation:
This most effective means of communication is to encourage , appreciate /praise, and actively
listen. This may look like verbal compliments for reassurance. Or random text messages or
notes. It is best to refrain from not making an effort to appreciate that person.
2.Physical Touch :
Apparently, the body is not an off limit zone for those who exempt this love language. In fact ,
body language and touch are instruments to express love. Intimacy , hugs, kisses ,cuddling are
all appropriate behaviors. To keep the peace , avoid physical neglect ,torture ,and abuse .
3.Receiving Gifts :
Special occasions that involves gifts being exchanged
are ideal. Christmas , birthdays , anniversary, and celebrations excite these natives. Thoughtful
gifts and expressions of gratitude are satisfying. Avoid forgetting special occasions or lack
thoughtfulness in gifts.
4.Quality Time :
The most important factor in this language is the present. It’s all about taking in the exchange of
space with two entities without interruption and focused one on one time. Do something that
that person will enjoy big or small. Whether that be a walk in the park or bowling night.
5:Acts of Service :
This language is all about taking initiative. Just do it ! Express that you want to help freely and
do what you say. An example of this may be to cook breakfast for your partner. The last thing
you want to do to this type of person is to not act or fall inadequate at your performances.
These are some practical rules of love that some of you may or may not have heard over. For the ones who do not know about this, take your time to discover what kind over lover you are. After you know that, star looking at the kind of lover you wish to be. Understanding these concepts can save you a lot of rainy days. Experiences sometimes blur our vision to the point we cannot even see ourselves. Therefore, it is important to not only understand ourselves, but each other as well.
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